Friday, February 5, 2010

My Husband Rocks...night duty

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I am a SAHM mom because my husband and I want it that way. I once would reply to those who asked what I did "oh, I just stay at home." I was corrected once on that  and have since changed my response to "I work within the home." The woman who corrected me I have never met again but she responded that being a mom and staying home to raise your child is THE HARDEST JOB. And it is a LOT of WORK Amen sister.

Now, being a SAHM of a (as in single) toddler, one would think I have lots of time. Lots of time to cook, clean etc. Hmmm... I agree. However, that is not the case. Even right now I know that my toddlers room is strewn with toys and all of her once folded in the drawer clothes. As I speak, she is sitting on my lap and just pulled to the ground a STACK if papers. (I'll get them later, this is important). And I know for a fact all my tampons have been pulled out from under the sink. At least this time she kept them out of the toilet.

So, I am a busy woman cleaning up and chasing and most importantly PLAYING with my toddler.   I do manage to take a little nap almost daily, I am able to spend time getting ready for the day and I do find time to get something more than Mac and Cheese or Top Ramen on the table... well, most nights at least.

Mu husband works so I can stay at home. He gets up at 6:30am and is home by 5:30pm. He dresses in the semi-darkness to not wake me up and is sure to close every door very quietly. He makes sure we pray every morning though, I admit, I am asleep during most of it.

All these are great reasons for why I have such a wonderful husband. But as I was in and out of dreamland last night, it hit me. HE is the one getting up to take care of our toddler. She is in a toddler bed and has recently been rolling out. She also will wake up from a bad dream (we think) and cry and scream and HE is the one who gets out of bed to hold her and to cuddle with her. And where am I you ask? Isn't that the Mom job? Good question.

I'm not quite sure when it happened but I can not get the toddler to go back to sleep. I used to be the one who could do it. Not anymore. After multiple and continued attempts, the husband stepped in and ...wallah! It worked! HE could get her to sleep! Thus, my rockin husband, who has to commute and work every day gets up all through the night whenever there is a prolonged cry from the next room over. He is self-appointed night duty guard and I remain enjoying my dreamland adventure. I know, I got a good one.

4 comments:

McKay said...

You are absolutely right...your husband does rock. After reading this, I think he is my new hero. :)

Tina said...

I love it! You did get a good one. I'm lucky if Tyler even hears what is going on during the night. Most of the time he is completely oblivious in the morning about what happened during the night. But, if I do happen to punch, I mean gently nudge him to get up, he does. Men are amazing. Thanks for the post!!

Sapp Family said...

That sounds a lot like my husband, Brad! Just this week his work schedule changed from working 7 AM to 5/6 PM...now its from 4PM to 12 AM. That way he gets to spend the day with us and doesn't have to work with a couple of guys who sometimes cause trouble (at in engineering firm!? I know!) Even with his new work schedule, Brad is also the one who gets up during the night if AimeeLynn has a bad dream and is up before me in the morning. We've both got it really good! AND I still can't wait until I one day get to meet you and your family...oh what an awesome day that will be. :) I think I'm also going to use the "I work from home" answer when people ask what I do. Thanks so much for posting this....I think I wanna write something about my husband now. :)

marcia said...

That was a great post Makana. It's always great to hear about your son being a good dad, very, very heartwarming. Thanks Mckay for your goodness! and thanks makana for being a stay at home mom and missing out on a more exciting life so that Jaedyn could have her mommy home.

I am realizing that this is mostly me, (makana) you get to read about in this blog. Hmm... well, lucky you! :)